{"id":1588,"date":"2021-04-21T17:41:09","date_gmt":"2021-04-21T17:41:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/projectodette.be\/?p=1588"},"modified":"2025-11-26T15:00:36","modified_gmt":"2025-11-26T15:00:36","slug":"1588","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/projectodette.be\/index.php\/2021\/04\/21\/1588\/","title":{"rendered":"een eerste ontmoeting"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Een eerste ontmoeting<\/span><\/h1>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>
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Het blijft telkens weer spannend. Een nieuwe bewoner.<\/p>\n

Zou er een klik zijn? Wie is hij? Welke dromen koestert hij nog? Wie staat er naast hem? Hoe voelt hij zich, in deze nieuwe omgeving? Ik besluit om kennis te maken, klop aan en ga binnen.<\/p>\n

\u2018Hoi, ik ben Kathleen. Ik wil graag kennismaken met je.\u2019<\/em><\/p>\n

Bert zit in de zetel, zijn ene been gekruist over het andere been, en dan weer omgekeerd. De kamer is leeg. Een bed, een zetel en een TV. Echt als een thuis voelt het nog niet aan.<\/p>\n

Bert begint te vertellen over de laatste maanden thuis, hoe hij zijn heup brak en ge\u00efsoleerd geraakte, over zijn zelfmoordgedachten, over zijn toffe buurman die voor hem boodschappen deed, over zijn twee zonen die hij ontzettend graag ziet, over zijn tijd aan de universiteit, over zijn werk. \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Hij spreekt, ik luister en heel af en toe onderbreekt hij zijn woorden en herhaalt hij: \u2018Ja, ik ben introvert, dat maakt het niet zo gemakkelijk\u2019.<\/em><\/p>\n

Het verhaal gaat verder: over zijn immense platencollectie, over zijn muziek. Dat mist hij wel, plaatjes draaien in zijn huis. Ik vraag hem welke muziek hij graag luistert. Verrast ben ik als hij zegt The Rolling Stone, the Beatles, the Who, David Garrick. Stiekem ben ik blij dat hij niet Johnny Jordaan, Jo Vally of Vader Abraham vernoemt. Niets tegen deze heren, uiteraard.<\/p>\n

Ik besluit lukraak een liedje op mijn gsm af te spelen: Pinnball Whizzard,<\/em> van the Who<\/a>. Een bom van een nummer!<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/em>Ever since I was a young boy
\n<\/em>I\u2019ve played the silver ball
\n<\/em>From Soho down to Brighton
\n<\/em>I must have played \u2018em all
\n<\/em>But I aint\u2019t seen nothing like him
\n<\/em>In any amusement hall
\n<\/em>That deaf, dumb and blind kid
\n<\/em>Sure plays a mean pinball<\/em><\/p>\n

Luid kelend in een klein kamertje ergens in Beveren voel ik me verbonden met Bert, de nieuwe bewoner. Verbonden door de liefde voor muziek. Bert zegt een nummer, ik speel het af en we zingen samen. Ik met de teksten voor mij, straffe Bert regelrecht vanuit het hart.
\nHet voelt als een magisch moment, een klein gelukske.<\/p>\n

Als ik de kamer verlaat, blijven z\u2019n laatste woorden in m\u2019n hoofd hangen: \u2018Zie ik je weer?\u2019<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1588","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dementie"],"yoast_head":"\neen eerste ontmoeting - Project Odette<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/projectodette.be\/index.php\/2021\/04\/21\/1588\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"nl_NL\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"een eerste ontmoeting - Project Odette\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/projectodette.be\/index.php\/2021\/04\/21\/1588\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Project Odette\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/projectOdette\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2021-04-21T17:41:09+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2025-11-26T15:00:36+00:00\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"admin\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Geschreven door\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"admin\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Geschatte leestijd\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 minuten\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\\\/\\\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/projectodette.be\\\/index.php\\\/2021\\\/04\\\/21\\\/1588\\\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/projectodette.be\\\/index.php\\\/2021\\\/04\\\/21\\\/1588\\\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"admin\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/projectodette.be\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/d674ee0c45f5cee18949d688ca8ed36b\"},\"headline\":\"een eerste ontmoeting\",\"datePublished\":\"2021-04-21T17:41:09+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2025-11-26T15:00:36+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/projectodette.be\\\/index.php\\\/2021\\\/04\\\/21\\\/1588\\\/\"},\"wordCount\":1505,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/projectodette.be\\\/#organization\"},\"articleSection\":[\"dementie\"],\"inLanguage\":\"nl-NL\"},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/projectodette.be\\\/index.php\\\/2021\\\/04\\\/21\\\/1588\\\/\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/projectodette.be\\\/index.php\\\/2021\\\/04\\\/21\\\/1588\\\/\",\"name\":\"een eerste ontmoeting - 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